Heart wrenching marriages; From surviving to thriving (when divorce is not an option)

A great, precious and priceless book by all standards. Many people feel trapped in their marriages and are desperately looking for solutions to their marital problems. From surviving to thriving gives readers a step by step approach as to how to deal with their heart wrenching marriages. The commendable thing about this book is that it contains a rich provision of scriptures all through out. This makes it a treasure store of godly principles related not only to marriage but also to helping the reader become a man or woman after God’s own heart.

Men need to read it to understand what women in general including their mothers, sisters and daughters could go through in their marriages. Husbands need to read it to connect their own behaviour and begin to appreciate their wives as precious gifts from God. Women contemplating divorce need to read it to appreciate the fact that transiting from surviving to thriving may be a better option than dissolving the marriage. Marriage counsellors, pastors and parents need to see in this book a useful resource to help them redeem struggling marriages and provide a good foundation for courting couples in their pre-marital counselling.

Couples must strive to celebrate each other’s gifts and potentials in order to build each other up and fulfill destiny. This must be their focus, rather than stay in bitterness, hatred, resentment and anger which can cause them to miss heaven one day.